Okay, so it is 6:35 in the morning on a Saturday and I just finished watching yesterday’s Oprah show about finding men over 35. I really don’t know that there was any ground breaking news on this show but a lot of confirmation of things women probably already know.

You need to project an image, an aura that you are available and you are confident. Guys pick up on it. I know this to be true and have even had friends – female friends – comment on it. When I am evidently on my game, I do project these “vibes,” for lack of a better term, and men do get it.

The whole “dress for success” – my terminology, not the show’s – is true, too. Who wants to invest time into being with a slob? I come and go on this account. I started this year off with a bang and made sure I was looking good every time I left my house. Didn’t matter if I was going to church, the grocery, the kids’ school – I did it. I have slacked off a bit lately but will be sure to get back into it.

And, if you missed the show, on Oprah’s site are pics and info on some of the men – though all are not over 35.