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Connecting Online

I have met so many people through online connections.  First, there was a small moderator community of maybe 20 women who helped with the running of message boards at OrganizedHome.com.  We were there for each other through thick and thin, even though we lived across the country from each other or some of us closer or some of us further.

 

When the message boards at OrganizedHome.com closed, I found a group of local moms at a MomsLikeMe site hosted by my local Gannett paper.  This was wonderful because we actually get together in real life too.  Many have been to my home.  Many have been to other things I go to.  We support each other as did my other group of friends.

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Now, I am connecting over the next ten days at MomaLom.com.  I know the connection will last more than for five minutes over the next ten days.  I just know new friendships will be forged.  I encourage you all to stop over and see, for the next ten days, what MomaLom is up to.

Baking Without Sugar

As the holidays approach, my oven is going non-stop.  I love to bake.  My favorite ingredients in autumn are pumpkin and apple and cranberry.  Because both my parents are diabetic, I spend a lot of time trying to make my tried and true recipes better.  I know how is it possible to make something better.  In my case, I try to use items other than shortening and sugar.

I have done some baking with Splenda.  I find that the brown sugar blend works best.  I do not like how Splenda itself tastes in baking.  It is not bad, but it not fantastic either.  So I set out this morning, prior to 6 am so I hope my brain woke up with that cup and a half of coffee, to make Vegan Pumpkin Bread with Stevia.

By the way, if you would like more information on Stevia, please visit No Meat Athlete’s blog and this entry.

Here is the recipe I altered.  If I had been smart, I would have remembered that Belly Laugh Baker had posted a vegan pumpkin bread recipe on No Meat Athlete’s blog.  I didn’t, though, so started out with my own and some information on Stevia from that blog.

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PUMPKIN BREAD
Blend together:
1 cup brown sugar, packed
1 teaspoon Stevia (I used “in the raw”)
2/3 cup unsweetened applesauce
¾ cup canola oil
2/3 cup water
Sift together (or mix well with whisk):
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 ½ teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon each cinnamon, nutmeg (freshly ground if possible) and cloves
3 ½ cups flour (I used whole wheat flour)
1 cup raisins
1 cup walnut meats, chopped
Mix dry and wet ingredients all together until smooth, by hand or with electric mixer; do NOT overbeat.  Add one cup raisins and one cup walnut meats.  Pour into loaf pans and bake at 325F.  Let cool 15 minutes and remove from pans to finish cooling.
2 ½ “ x 4 ½ “ x1 ½ “ pans; 11-12 loaves; ½ cup batter each; bake for 45 minutes
3” x 6” x 2” pans; 6 loaves; 1 cup batter each; bake for 55-60 minutes
8” x 4” x 2” pans; 3 loaves; 2 cups batter each; bake for 1 hour, 15 minutes
9” x 5” x 2” pans; 2 loaves; 3 cups batter each; bake for 1 hour, 25 minutes
Muffins:  makes 24; bake 25 minutes at 350F
And, in an even more daring attempt, I have made an apple cake without the eggs.
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Apple Cake
1 teaspoon Stevia (in the raw)
½ cup unsweetened applesauce
1 cup canola oil
2/3 cup unsweetened applesauce
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1 teaspoon baking soda
¼ teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon vanilla
3 cups whole wheat flour
3 cups chopped apples, skins on
Mix and bake at 350F in a large, ungreased pan for 1 hour or until a toothpick inserted in the middle comes out clean.

Mom to the College Kid

Yesterday, I went to college for the day.  This is not the first time I have played this role.  I have six children and yesterday I was visiting #5 at college.  I have done the day trip to college many times since 2003 and each time is different.

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This time was made more unique by the fact that #5 is a student-athlete.  He is a diver.  I, if you follow me, made an impromptu trip to #5 in October due to a diving injury.  This trip was to watch him dive.

 

On top of diving, there was a team dinner and time with the coach.  It is always nice to get feedback on how your college-aged child is doing as the things he or she lets you know should not be posted online.  His diving is somewhat improved from high school.  He has, as he has with other diving coaches, a love-hate relationship with the diving coach.  More importantly, his grades are good – the coach checks these things.  And, he is hospitable.  He has hosted at least two recruits and Coach is happy with him for doing so and for doing so well.

 

When you look back at all the things that could go wrong or right at college, as a parent, it is nice to know that some of the values taught before #5 left home are sticking with him.

A New Poem

I sat here on this slightly dreary Saturday morning with a mug of steaming coffee and these words below came out of me.

 

and that scares me

i miss you when i don’t see you

and that scares me

i want you more than i think i should

and that scares me

though i have trouble saying it, i need you

and that scares me

i love you and always will

and that doesn’t scare me at all

 

A Most Beautiful Day

Yesterday was unique in that it was Veterans’ Day and that means November.  Yet, it was almost 50F out and sunny.  If you have ever stopped by certain parts of Upstate NY in the almost winter, you will know that those two things seldom happen together.

 

I traveled to Ithaca, NY yesterday afternoon for a client meeting.  This is a weekly, most weeks anyway, thing and the drive was wonderful yesterday.  And, I managed to get out during daylight so stopped quickly at a rest area above Ithaca College to take some pictures of Cayuga Lake.

 

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Cayuga Lake from NYS Route 96B South of Ithaca College

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Cayuga Lake from NYS Route 96B South of Ithaca College

 

Once home, I settled into “mom” mode and got dinner in the oven.  After the chicken was done and the spinach sautéed, I was about to sit down and eat when I saw the sky outside.  The wondrous day had lead to an even more wondrous sunset.

 

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Sunset 11 Nov 09

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Sunset 11 Nov 09

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Sunset 11 Nov 09

 

 

 

A Day to Remember

I am not sure if I asked any of my children what today is a remembrance of they could tell me.  All six could tell me November 11th celebrates veterans from all the wars the United States has been in but they could probably not tell me what war ended on this day in history.

 

On the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month in 1918, an armistice was signed that ended World War I.  Of course, at that time, no one foresaw there being a World War II or any of the other conflicts and wars that service men and women have sacrificed while fighting.

 

In other countries, you will find Veterans’ Day called Remembrance Day.  We need to remember and honor those people from our country who have allowed us to have the lives we have.

 

So, while your kids have school off and many of us have the day off from work, take time today to say thank you to a veteran.  Remember that without those who are willing to sacrifice time with their loved ones, you might not be able to spend time as you like with your loved ones.  Go to a wreath laying.  Go to a parade.  Talk to your kids about what today means.

 

Thank you to all veterans and service men and women.  Thank you for choosing to put your country’s needs above yours.  Thank you for serving.

 

 

Accosted via IM

I know I should be more cynical.  I know I should not accept chats with just anyone.  I have to be honest, though.  A lot of my friends have screen names that are just that, screen names.  I do not know where they came up with them or why.

 

Imagine my surprise today when I get an IM request via Yahoo! Messenger for some strange name.  The person – and I am not using this term loosely – is calling me by name and asking me to approve them to chat with me.  I did not recognize the name.  That is not a requirement to chat with me so I approved the person.

 

Well, first it was “I am uncomfortable as I have a crush on you.”  What the heck?!?  I should have taken that as a clue and blocked the screen name immediately.  I just asked for a third time – “who are you?”

 

Well, then it was risque pictures and a few other words before I finally got the hint and blocked and reported the screen name.

 

When it comes to my children’s online safety, I am skeptical and cautious.  Why cannot I not be the same way for myself?  I am an open book online but I did not want to deal with this kind of crap today or any day.

 

How cautious are you with your IM?

The Holidays Approach

I frequent a web site for moms run by our local Gannett newspaper.  Yes, there has already been discussion of the holidays on said site.

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First off, we are all interested in what someone else is doing for the holidays.  Sometimes, it is because someone else’s horror story of how parents and grandparents always fight or Uncle Jimmy never gets through Thanksgiving dinner without getting totally drunk put in perspective what our families are like.  It is that rubber-necking that makes us look at a car crash that makes us want to hear someone else’s problems with the holidays.

 

Second, we like to share what we do that works.  Not everything works when tried.  Different families have different traditions but I will say that I am ALWAYS willing to try a different tradition.

 

Just remember as the holidays approach, not everyone likes the holidays.  Older friends, neighbors and family may feel all alone on during the holiday season.  Please feel free to invite someone like this to your holiday disaster.  While you may think your family does nothing but fight over who gets the turkey leg, an elderly neighbor or friend may find that entertaining.

 

Single people – no, I am not talking 20-something single people – frequently do not like the holidays.  If you have friends who are divorced or separated and not seeing anyone, invite them to your free-for-all for the day.  When you are that single friend, it is nice to know someone else cares enough about you to ask if you want to share their family and life.

 

And, if you don’t get what I am talking about, maybe this poem I wrote many years ago will help.

 

Holiday Pain

Everyone thinks of the holiday season
As one of joy and love
No one wants to admit the darkness
That shadows many

The pain that aches within a heart
That feels so all alone
Even friendly arms can’t hold it
The pain’s too strong

Though on the outside all seems well
The inside cracks and breaks
The pieces fall around the soul
Not sure where to go

Some day, someone will reach the heartache
And hold it all together
Bur for now the pain will linger
Almost til forever

One of my favorite things to do is pass a book I love onto a friend to read.  I have done this many times, either with my own copy or by buying the friend his or her own copy of a favorite book.  I had never really thought about the fact that I do this electronically also.

 

I will continually post links on Facebook.  As I am reading an online article, I will think so and so would really like this information.  Frequently, I will find I want to send the article to more than one or two friends.  It is usually at that time that I will post the link to Facebook.

 

I also tweet about online articles I love.  It is often a RT (retweet) that will bring about a link in my Twitter feed.

 

My most recent thing is to really use my Delicious account to keep a list of what I am reading online.  I really learned I should use this more when I attended a Time Warner Cable Business Class presentation on social media and business.  Matt Hames has his Delicious URL on his business cards.

 

So, the question is do you share what you read with your friends, business colleagues?  Just real, in my hands things you read or your electronic reading also?

 

You can see what I am reading by friending me on Facebook, following me on Twitter at @NickiinNY, or visiting my Delicious account.

First off, let me tell you I am a Bzz Agent, a part of the leading word of mouth network. Having studied advertising and marketing in college, I can tell you that word of mouth is the oldest and, in most cases, the most effective way to get information out there about your product or service. If you would like more information about Bzz Agents or becoming one, leave me a comment and I will send that to you.

nourish-moisturize

So the current campaign I am participating in involves the Aveeno Nourish & Revitalize shampoo and conditioner. There was a choice and, due to the mess my hair gets to be, I chose the revitalize.  As for the mess of my hair, I use to color it all the time.  My hair took a beating with coloring.  Then, in 2007, I started running.  The sweat, the sun, the other elements – cold, snow, rain, and then the constant washing to get all those things out of my hair really took its toll on the condition of my hair.

The past month or so I have been using the Aveeno Nourish & Revitalize shampoo and conditioner.  My hair feels healthier.  It looks healthier.  It is healthier.  Just a caveat, I have also had it trimmed in this time so that helps with the healthier part.  I attribute a lot of the feel and look of my hair to the Aveeno shampoo and conditioner.

I strongly encourage you to consider an Aveeno Nourish shampoo and conditioner the next time you are purchasing such for yourself or your family.

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