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Faith is Not …

I am just now reading Ronna Detrick‘s e-newsletter and, as always, she has me thinking.  She has me thinking about faith and what it is and, definitely more importantly, what it is not.

 

Faith is not going to church or worship every week.  This act may be inspired by your faith in a higher being but more than likely, it is inspired by childhood guilt, parental guilt or some other force.  I have been the – pardon the intended pun – religious church goer, never missing a Sunday.  I have been the not-so-religious church goer, letting my life take me to commune with God while hiking or running or hunting.  I know that neither says I have faith unless there is a belief in the act in something that is not there physically with me at the time.

 

Faith is not being a _________ (you fill in the blank) – Catholic, Protestant, Jew, Christian.  Faith goes beyond the labels of a particular religion or religious point of view.  Faith goes to knowing that there is something, someone there when all else fails – a safety net of sorts.  Faith does not go to a certain denomination church or non-denominational church.  See, this makes me happy because I am not a label person.  I hate having to label almost anything, including my faith.

 

Faith is belief – belief in yourself, belief in others, belief in goodness, belief in God or a higher being, belief in just about any and everything in our world.  Faith is hard to put in words because faith is personal.  My faith is different from your faith.  Your faith is different from your child’s faith.

 

What is faith to you?  Or, almost as importantly, what is faith not to you?


Faith and Religion

People tend to use these two words – faith and religion – interchangeably.  Not me!  I have a great faith.  It is strong and has helped me make it through many trials in my life.  It is a faith in a higher being but it is also a faith in my fellow men and women.  It is a belief – a word I am more likely to use interchangeably with faith – in the goodness that is in the world while still seeing that that is not good.

Religion

Religion is defined as a specific set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects.  The world boasts a large number of religions.  The problem is that each religion seems to think IT is the only way.  Religion has become a divisive part of our world.  That is not what God is.  God is a force who brings people together, not tears people apart.

Faith

Faith is defined as a belief that is not based on proof.  That means there is a huge chasm between faith and religion.  To have faith is to believe in something that is unseen, unproven through normal methods.  I have a huge faith.  My faith has pulled me through all kinds of life changes that I never anticipated.

Whether I am talking about my faith in God or my faith in my fellow humankind, this belief in the good in the world helps me see the bumps in my road, my life as challenges, not problems.  Knowing that I am not alone, that I have God with me regardless of what I am doing helps me to carry on when things look bleak.

Do you have faith?  In a higher being?  In each other?  Do you follow an organized religion?  Are the two interchangeable in your book?


Put Yourself First

I tend to not think of myself as selfish.  I am sure, when the boys ask for something and are told I am busy or some other response, they think so.  I am not.  I just finished reading an article by Rebecca Pratt about putting yourself first.

Pratt hits the nail on the head as she explains the day for most parents, though women do seem to still shoulder the bulk of household responsibilities.  If you are like me, you get up and it starts.  You help kids get ready for school, maybe make lunches, clean up from breakfast, go to work, come home and do some housework, fix dinner, help with homework, do laundry, do dishes, drop into bed exhausted knowing this is coming again tomorrow.  The only problem is tomorrow is not far away.

Guess what?  Pratt makes a great point.  Have you ever truly listened to the “talk” by flight attendants prior to take off?  They tell you to put your oxygen mask on first prior to helping any children you may be traveling with.  Do you know why?  Because you have to be fully aware of what is going on to be able to help those around you.

This analogy applies to life in general.  If you do not restore your own mind and body, you are not functioning fully and may not be able to help those you love.

If you have been following my blog at all, you will know that I started a journey in September of 2007.  This journey was to incorporate daily exercise into my life and eat more healthy.  This is a journey, as was getting out of shape and letting myself go.

To keep myself in shape – and I am talking mental, spiritual and physical – I have to put myself before my children some times.  I run between 2.5 and 5 miles most days.  One day of the week I do a longer trek – somewhere between 7.5 and 10 miles (this is not a straight run but a combination of running and power walking).  I attend Mass regularly as I need to be spiritually aware also.  I do read my Bible and pray constantly.  I also read all the time – newspapers, magazines, books on all topics.

What do you do to put yourself first?


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