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Third Sunday in Advent

This is a third post in a series on Advent thoughts. It is getting posted much later than the first two but here you go.

The third Sunday in Advent is Gaudet – the root meaning is rejoice – Sunday. Many reasons are available for rejoicing on this third Sunday in Advent. John is baptizing people in the River Jordan. He is proclaiming that one greater than he will come and baptize in the Lord, not in water. One will come that John is not fit to untie the sandals He wears.

When I sit in church and hear the readings of Advent, I immediately go the musical “Godspell.” Many of the songs that come to my mind come from that show. “Prepare Ye the Way of the Lord” is probably the one that plays over and over in my mind.

While we are an Easter people – living in the belief of the Risen Christ, we are joyful to celebrate the first coming of Christ, as a baby to a young woman who conceived the child out of wedlock. We celebrate that a baby will lead us as we sit around our trees this December.

Let the joy that comes with knowing that Christ will come again and that He came that first time well out of you this Advent season!


Penn State Thoughts

Who would have thought? Who would have foreseen? No one I am sure of that. I know, cryptic beginning but I am thinking about the mess at Penn State at the moment. I have been on a two week vacation. I was not hiding under a rock but did not pay particular attention to the PSU problems until my step-dad was asking me what was going on there as he was reading a fairly short article buried in their paper. Now, they do live in the desert southwest but Nittany Lion alumni are a strong bunch across the country. I couldn’t believe allegations of sexual abuse by a coach at Penn State would be hidden in any paper in the country.

Fast forward a few days and I am traveling cross country to get home. I did not have the smoothest of connections on the way back to New York so missed a good day and a half or so of news. I log onto the internet eventually and I see that Joe Paterno has announced he will resign at the end of the season. Now, Paterno was not accused of sexually abusing anyone. He is guilty of a moral lapse. The fact, though, that not doing enough was enough to make a man who is 84 and showed no signs of retirement to date decide to end his storied career says a lot. Paterno was told of the allegations against the assistant coach’s and did inform those above him in the chain of university command. That was all he did.

Another day passes and I turn on the television to catch the morning local news as I always do. I find out I slept through not only the Board of Trustees firing Joe Paterno and the university president but also through students rioting in State College. Needless to say, Happy Valley is not so happy today.

Paterno had been coach at Penn State for 46 years. As I said, he was 84 years old. The man should have retired long ago, possibly even before these allegations took place. What will this mean for Paterno? What will this mean for Penn State?

If Paterno has raised men as well as trained athletes – as he has always said, the team should rally around the fired coach and finish stronger than ever. This may seem like a stretch since professional athletes claim all kinds of distractions cause their games to be off. Just remember we are not talking about professional athletes but student athletes. These athletes already have a fair number of distractions to their game with the academic and social lives they live.

The overwhelming question, particularly among alumni, is what will this mean for the reputation that Paterno had built for himself. Paterno was known for coaching and not having a lot of issues with his teams. He was known for being a straight shooter and for doing the right thing. Then came the allegations against a former assistant coach. Should Paterno have done more when he was informed? Probably but remember that the average person, especially in a large city, witnesses crimes all the time and doesn’t report, and usually doesn’t even stop to help, the victim.

I am not defending Paterno. I am saying he is human. He did what the average person would do. He did what he was required to do and not a thing more. Unfortunately, he lived on a pedestal in Happy Valley. People, players, fans, alumni expected him to be better than average. These constituencies expected Joe Paterno to be more than human.

Time will be the only thing that will tell how Paterno and Penn State recover from this scandal.


Education Funding

Please realize these thoughts are mine and mine alone.  They do not reflect the feelings of the school district my child attends and of which I am a member of the board of education.

 

Friday morning a group of unsuspecting folks on Twitter were discussing educational reform. I think this is fantastic as I find the subject nearly impossible to discuss in a blog post, let alone in 140 characters. Worse than the whole character limitation was the fact that the original link that was shared was followed by a comment that sharing such on Facebook would garner all kinds of attacks.

The public education system is broken. This is the start of the conversation: not what is broken or how but that the system is broken.  It is not broken to the same extent in all locations but it is broken, none the less. There are many reason for this state of broken-ness. It can come from many reasons. Funding reasons are the biggest one, at least in New York State.

New York State funds differing school districts in differing amounts. State funding comes from state taxes. Local funding comes from property taxes. So basically public education is funded by the taxes of the people of the state. The biggest issue in NY is that school district budgets are close to the only way for voters to express any amount of dissatisfaction with government. Town and municipal budgets do not get voted on by the taxpayer. Votes are for school budgets and for elected officials. Consequently, school budgets seem to get the brunt of voter dissatisfaction.

This funding method has caused some great divides between wealthy and not so wealthy districts within NYS. Places in the state where businesses are booming, granted at this point in time no part of the state has a fantastic economy, there is a tax base to fund schools – academic programs, athletic programs, teachers, aides, monitors. Places in the state where the economy is closer to stagnant, there is not a tax base to fund schools. As municipalities look to offer incentives for businesses to locate in that municipality, school districts are not sure if I want to use this portion

Many people think that because local funding comes from property taxes that only local property owners should be allowed to vote. The fallacy in this is that most property owners figure their property taxes into what they charge for rental units. In addition to this, renters are eligible, by state law, to be members of boards of education. Consequently, thinking that renters should not be allowed to vote on school budgets, and by association on tax levies, is flawed.

Funding is definitely an issue in the mess that is public education in NYS. Another issue is laws that require the last hired to be the first let go in times of layoffs. This issue has caused some heated discussions in all circles as school districts statewide notified teachers of the possibility of layoffs this spring. In a small two county area in upstate NY, over 400 positions were lost from school districts this year. The impact will begin to be felt as these people vie for the few jobs that are available in the fall. The impact will be felt as these families have less income and are not frequenting restaurants and stores in the area. To top that off is the fact that this is a small area. Most larger city areas incurred much larger layoffs.

Let’s look at options. None of these options are totally thought through yet but all have some sense of viability. First there is the last in, first out process. Teachers should not have guaranteed employment just because they are teachers. Tenure is a bad thing. It guarantees lackadaisical behavior on the part of teachers. In addition, tenure is granted after a short period of time in most cases. Tenure needs to be granted after five years in one district at the least. Tenure also needs to be renewable. In other words, there is no “job for life” guarantee that most teachers feel they have once they have received tenure. Please realize this discussion is a generalization and not all teachers are like this.

Another option is to change the funding formula. In NYS, the current governor, Andrew M Cuomo, is trying to do just that. The governor is proposing a tax cap – this is a cap of the tax levy, not the actual tax rate of a property – at 2% or the rate of inflation, which ever is lower. Had this law, the way it was originally written, been in place for the 2011 budget vote, school districts across NYS would have had to have a 0% tax levy increase, excepting previously voted on capitol projects. The only way to get around this lack of an increase would be a “super majority” vote or approval by more than 60% of the voters.

Can education be fixed? Can schools start at zero and work up from there, cutting items that are not essential? Can schools figure out a way to educate our students without breaking the bank? This issue will go on for a long time as no school district can start with a zero and build a budget up as there are contractual obligations that must be fulfilled. So what is the answer?

Do I have the answer? No. I have thoughts that may or may not work in differing districts and communities around the county. What I do know is that the method has to change and change now. What I do know is the community must be involved in the solution. What I do know is that, regardless of what happens, there is absolutely no way to make everyone happy.


The Benevolent Dictator – A Book Review

When first approached to review Michael Feuer’s The Benevolent Dictator, I was hesitant.  How could another book be written on how to start and build a buisness?  Is there really a new way to do this?  In the end, my hesitancy is what convinced me to read this book.  I knew  a publisher would not put a book out that did not have something new in it.

 

I was pleasantly surprised when I began reading Feuer’s The Benevolent Dictator.  First, it is an easy read.  This business book is written in short, almost how-to chapters called lessons.  Each lesson is told with examples from Feuer’s business life.  Feuer is the mastermind behind the success of Jo-Ann Stores in the late 70′s and the 1980′s before he founded OfficeMax.

 

The book is split, quite logically, into four sections: start-up, build out and idea testing, reinvention and payout.  While many of the lessons may seem like common sense, there are equally as many that are simply pieces of brilliance for the businessman or entrepreneur.

 

As is the case in many instances these days, I look at my race running and training as a business.  Consequently, when reading a business book, I tend to apply the lessons to my training.  I also apply lessons to my freelance business.  The lesson in start-up that most called to me as a runner and as a freelancer is lesson eight, competition stinks.  As a freelancer, I know that competition stinks.  Gigs are hard to find and secure.  More and more time is put into finding the next gig because of competition.  On the other hand, by finding my own strength, I can find gigs that are almost “tailor-suited” for me.

 

In the idea testing section, lesson 11 about plans screamed at me.  Not only should there be a plan, all good runners and entrepreneurs should have a plan B, plan C, maybe even plan D.  As a running, I set goals for my races.  I set what I hope to be a realistic finishing time goal.  Then, as I know I should, I set other goals.  Because you never know what is waiting for you during a race, other goals should be set with the final goal – when all others have alluded you – being to finish.

 

I strongly suggest anyone in business – whether a worker bee or a boss or an entrepreneur or a freelancer – pick up a copy of Feuer’s The Benevolent Dictator.  The lessons that Feuer has learned in his business life are ones from which we all can learn and take advantage.

 

I received an advance copy of Feuer’s book, The Benevolent Dictator, for purposes of this review.  The thoughts on the book are totally mine.


Kindergarten Conundrum

As usual, I was surfing the web and reading some of the major newspapers of the country.  I like knowing what is going on in the New York Times and The Washington Post as well as several others that are in the Midwest and the West.  Sometimes I miss something but, in that case, a friend generally points it out to me before the end of the day.

As I was perusing the education blog on The Washington Post, I came across a piece on full versus half day kindergarten.  I had to stop and read.  I truly did not think that half day kindergarten existed in the United States any longer.  I was sadly wrong.

My mind, upon reading the guest piece, is that the full vs. half day debate has certainly changed since I started fighting and debating it about 24 years ago.

Back when #1 was looking at kindergarten – I should probably say his father and I were looking at kindergarten, the majority of our public school districts in upstate New York offered a half day program.  This was fine but #1 had turned five in November so we had not sent him to kindergarten that year, even though he had turned five before the December 1 deadline.  He was in a preschool program that was full day and educational so he stayed there.

The next year rolled around and I found myself suddenly shopping for a full day kindergarten.  Full days away from home were what #1 was use to.  The preschool offered a full day kindergarten program but it was an open classroom.  I felt #1 needed more structure.  I found a Catholic school that had a program perfect for #1.  It was on the other side of the city but that was okay with me.

The twins had a January birthday.  There would be no extra year in preschool for them, even with #2′s speech issues.  The public school district we lived within the borders of still only had a half day kindergarten program.  I was still a firm believer in full day.  Since #1 had not left the Catholic school, #2 and #3 followed.  This nicest part was the community of the school – a faith-filled group of parents and teachers.  The other nice part was I didn’t have to fight with administrators about keeping the twins, at least for now, in the same class.

When the twins went to the Catholic school for kindergarten, #4 followed for preschool.  The cost of full day preschool/day care was becoming prohibitive and I had become a stay at home mom so it was not a necessity any longer.

Then, came the debate, during that year #4 was in preschool at the Catholic school.  The public school district was thinking about beginning a full day kindergarten.  The public was outraged.  What was the point?  Why was it necessary?

I went to Board of Education meetings.  I diligently typed out my comments.  While I do not dislike speaking in public, I like to leave those making the decision a written copy and I hate forgetting pieces.  I went into why it was time, in 1991-92, to change.

Our school system was set up when the US was an agrarian society.  School days were when they were so that children could get up in the morning and milk the cows before going to school.  Some still do.  The end of school day, with the exception of winter, left time for chores also.  Having time off during the summer gave the farmer his family to help with harvesting.  This is not the world we had in 1992 or in 2010.

The Board of Education decided to start full day kindergarten with the school year 1992-93 and it was, and still is, successful.

Unfortunately, in 1994, we moved out of the city and into a smaller school district, a school district that did not have full day kindergarten.  I went through the entire process again.  I attended Board of Education meetings when the topic came up.  I presented experiences and statistics and history.  Again, the Board went with a full day kindergarten.

So, to see that the full day versus half day debate is still ongoing drives me crazy.  To see that, at least in the case of Fairfax County, there are both full day and half day options and that the full day goes to those who are starting at a disadvantage floors me.

Did you attend a full day or a half day kindergarten program?  What about your children?  What do you think is better?


Peanut Butter Crackers Being Removed from Store Shelves

Austin and Keebler brand peanut butter crackers are being removed from store shelves according to ABC News.  Both are made by Kellogg’s.  The company says it does not want to take any chances as it does buy peanut butter from the large distributor who is being investigated by the FDA in the recent salmonella outbreak.  The salmonella outbreak has sicked 430 people in 43 states and resulted in five deaths.  Please throw out any of these peanut butter crackers you may have.

 

Includes Austin® and Keebler® branded Toasted Peanut Butter Sandwich Crackers, Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwich Crackers, Cheese and Peanut Butter Sandwich Crackers, and Peanut Butter-Chocolate Sandwich Crackers.

 

http://kelloggs.mediaroom.com/index.php?s=43&item=230


Sun Protection

I am a bit of a freak about sunscreen.  I haven’t always been.  I can remember sitting in the sun with baby oil on as a teenager.  I can remember sitting in the sun with Hawaiian Tropic SPF 4 oil on as a college student. 

As I got older, I started using sunscreen more and more.  As I became a mother, I went through bottles of sunscreen, the higher the SPF, the better.  As I became the mother of a blue-eyed, red head, I started buying sunscreen at Sam’s Club, in bulk.

Last year, after my mother actually called my legs pasty looking, I started buying moisturizer with self-tanner in it.  I will say that I do tan rather easily.  I have noticed, though and especially as I have gotten older, that my arms take to the sun less and less.  We had a few days of summer early this spring and I had sun poisoning.  This did not surprise me as my paternal grandmother always got sun poisoning.

A month or so ago, I was in a Sephora store – a real luxury as there is not one near my home – and signed up as a beauty insider.  This is Sephora’s way to reward those of us who spend big bucks in their brick and mortar stores or their online store.  Part of the deal is you also receive preferential emails.

Last week, I received an insider email from Sephora that was a sample package of sun protection products.  A quick check of my upcoming expenses and the current balance on my debit card and off I went to order it.  Yesterday, I heard the back screen door open – this took a lot as I had to train the UPS guy to open the door and put my parcels inside – and there was the Sephora box. 

First off, I have to tell you that I have only ever ordered twice from Sephora online.  The items ship quickly and come in an appropriate sized box.  I love the fact that the boxes are filled with actual tissue paper as I hate dealing with packing peanuts.  Inside was my Sephora sun safety kit which 100% of the net profits benefit The Skin Cancer Foundation.

Inside the sun safety kit was mdskincare sun protection towelettes (SPF 30), Shiseido Ultimate Sun Protection Cream for face (SPF 55), DDF Daily Protective Moisturizer with SPF 15, Sunscreen Face Cream in Watermelon (SPF 30 and made in Greece), Clarins Ultra Protection (SPF 30), Medi Matte Oil Control Lotion (SPF 20), smashbox photo finish foundation primer (SPF 15), juice beauty Green Apple Moisturizer SPF 15,  Murad firming bronzer (SPF 15) and tarte 24-7 in thursday for lips.  Probably even cooler than all the product – and these are all sample sizes but it is cool as I may find the perfect face sunscreen as I have problems with that – is a UV exposure indicator which tells you how strong the UV rays are.  This is a never-ending issue in an area that sees a lot of cloudy sun.


Simple Abundance – March 2008

I know you are all probably thinking I am nuts.  March is almost over, as I was reminded this morning by my mother who was wondering if March came in like a lion or a lamb as it is looking like it is going out like a lion.

This month Sarah Ban Breathnach is discussing the principle of simplicity.  I always find this to be one of the hardest principles for us to grasp in our world.  We seem to collect “things.”  Materialism seems to be rampant.

 In looking back over March, I want to point out a few important readings.  I also want to remind you all to use your Gratitude Journals.  If you have been remiss in this area, please dust it off and get back on track.

The very first reading of the month – about restoring our sanity to our lives – is not one I could have read on March 1st.  I was the whirling dervish that SBB discusses.  I was up at 4:30 am that morning and out the door, even though March was coming in like a lion and there was still a snow-covered road by my house.  I dropped my 13 year old at the local diner to have a “pre-event” breakfast with his Science Olympiad team.  Then, I was off to the high school to set up for the tournament that would find seven middle schools competing for the chance to advance to the state tournament.

The next discussion on meditation moves me more now than it did at the beginning of March.  I am currently reading Eat, Pray, Love  and am in the section on meditation and prayer.  We all, regardless of who we pray to or why we meditate, need to revive these practices.  The quiet time in our souls will help our creative selves come out and play more easily.

 The discussion of what appearance we put forward and can we find the inspiration in it if we are not “pulled together” intrigue me.  I am one of those who can sit at home and work in a hoodie and sweats.  I go out for a run in old warmups and ratting baseball hats.  I do, though, try to look together when I am heading out for other things as can be seen below in my “Easter” outfit.

Me

The mid-month discussions of self-nurturing and self-acceptance always make me smile.  How can we nurture those around us and help them build self-acceptance if we cannot do this for ourselves?  I have often wondered how the mother who cannot nurture herself, even if only occasionally, can nurture her young ones.  

I also love the discussions of style and fashion here at the end of the month.  I am slowly finding my “style” and have gotten rid of a lot of things that were in my closets and drawers for I don’t really know what reason. 

If you have not yet taken part in the Joyful Simplicities for March, please read them over.  Many can be done in April!!!


Yahoo! 360

So the most recent blog entry from the development team says that blogging will continue to be a big part of the new platform. That is great but I have started a new blog in a different arena. I have put my blog at WordPress.

I have had a domain name for over a year and not had it associated with anything so I have put the domain name in conjuntion with my blog. I have been copying here and there, slowly moving my older posts over to that site.

Please come visit me at Nicki’s Nook.


360! Again

I know I am not a big blog in the Yahoo! 360 world. I have, though, been blogging since November of 2005. I am not concerned with moving to a universal profile. I am absolutely amazed that people have more than one Yahoo! profile. I have one – it works for 360, it works for email, it works for geocities (it is not the original geocities ID I had when I first started there but that plus a dot geo), it works for groups.

I have watched Yahoo! do changes and integration previously. There was little, if any, contact when Geocities became a Yahoo! product. There was slightly more when egroups moved to Yahoo! groups. I believe that the product development community is trying to have even more information on the 360 closing/new universal profile and social networking starting but they are doing so from a product and, basically, an engineering point of view. They are not doing it from a marketing or public relations point of view.

I have a degree in marketing and public relations. The first big mistake was to say the word “close.” Use any of a number of other words in saying things will be different and you are already on better footing – migration, integration. Even culminate and conclude might go over better. Close has way too much of a finality with it to make anyone reading feel secure in what they post here and in what they want to post in the future.

The main thing for anyone contemplating such a huge change is “people don’t like change,” regardless of what the political parties will tell you. Status quo is much easier in most facets of our lives than change is.

Another contemplation is for the product development team to realize this change – whatever format it may be – will be similar to death for many people. There will be all five stages of grief set out by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross – denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Each 360 user will go through these stages at a different pace. I have seen this happen as I use to moderate a discussion forum that just closed.

Lastly, information is the most important thing that Yahoo! has on its side. By letting all 360 users know what is going on and feeling vested in the change, Yahoo! will have a much easier time in the arena of public opinion.

For those who have not read the various blogs on the 360 change, please see a list below.
Yahoo! 360 Product Blog
Mr E’s Blog
My360MI’s Product Blog
Yes Virginia, 360 is Closing…However…


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