Monthly Archives: April 2010

Faith and Religion

People tend to use these two words – faith and religion – interchangeably.  Not me!  I have a great faith.  It is strong and has helped me make it through many trials in my life.  It is a faith in a higher being but it is also a faith in my fellow men and women.  It is a belief – a word I am more likely to use interchangeably with faith – in the goodness that is in the world while still seeing that that is not good.

Religion

Religion is defined as a specific set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects.  The world boasts a large number of religions.  The problem is that each religion seems to think IT is the only way.  Religion has become a divisive part of our world.  That is not what God is.  God is a force who brings people together, not tears people apart.

Faith

Faith is defined as a belief that is not based on proof.  That means there is a huge chasm between faith and religion.  To have faith is to believe in something that is unseen, unproven through normal methods.  I have a huge faith.  My faith has pulled me through all kinds of life changes that I never anticipated.

Whether I am talking about my faith in God or my faith in my fellow humankind, this belief in the good in the world helps me see the bumps in my road, my life as challenges, not problems.  Knowing that I am not alone, that I have God with me regardless of what I am doing helps me to carry on when things look bleak.

Do you have faith?  In a higher being?  In each other?  Do you follow an organized religion?  Are the two interchangeable in your book?


Earth Day Redux

I sent a series of small tips, thought-provoking items through Twitter on Earth Day last Thursday.  So now, I want to list these all here in case you do not follow me on Twitter.

Eat as locally as you can.  Better for you and better for our environment.  You can read more about my thoughts on eating locally in my guest post at The Kitchen Witch.

Do you compost? http://www.howtocompost.org http://www.composting101.com/

Candlelight is mood setting and energy saving. Eat dinner by candlelight once a week.

Make sure you are using the 3 R’s: reduce, reuse and recycle!

Consider a clothesline as opposed to a dryer: less energy used and less wear and tear on clothing.

It doesn’t take much energy for you to walk back into that room you just left and turn the lights out.

Is it really easier to keep that charger plugged in without the laptop/cell phone/fill in the blank charging?

What does it cost you to walk to the grocery store (if possible) rather than drive?

If you put a cup under the faucet, how much water do you use to brush your teeth?  Wash your face?


Spartan Theatre Company Presents …

… or actually presented Thornton Wilder’s “Our Town.”  My son has gone from loving being on the stage crew to loving being in the spotlight.  This is a good thing for the Spartan Theatre Company as there is a true shortage of male actors, just as there are shortages of male voices in choruses.

The performance of “Our Town” was absolutely amazing.  I would have strongly recommended the shows to anyone at all.  The kids did a great job on all the parts.  The parents that help with scenery did a fantastic job with the minimal scenes and with the final scene that is actually a kitchen.  The costumes were great.  Below are some shots from either Friday or Saturday nights’ performances as I was on the road to Boston during Sunday’s matinee.  Included in the photos are shots from the school district wide art and literature contest based on the the theme “Our Town.”


Controversy and Body Image

I am busy trying to get work articles written around my jury duty so my blog seems to be coming in last in the things I want to get done.  I spent a good deal of Sunday stockpiling and scheduling posts for this week but now I need to think ahead.  Unfortunately, I am instead obsessing on ABC and Fox refusing to air a commercial for Lane Bryant.

I use to shop at Lane Bryant a lot.  It was one of the few stores that carried styles I liked in sizes that fit me.  I could, on occasion, find a bra at Victoria’s Secrets that fit but I am a bit picky about my bras so I like being able to try them on.  Either I was a very common size or VS didn’t carry my size in their stores.  I could, though, order from their web site or catalog.

This problem was not an issue with Lane Bryant.  On top of that, they had a selection of bras in my size.  I liked that.  I knew that I was a bit overweight but I liked to feel sexy and look nice.

Now, I am annoyed.  Both ABC and Fox refused to air the commercial above.  I have seen worse commercials for erectile dysfunction – truly do we have to hear that there is a possibility of a four hour erection?, for Victoria’s Secrets and for their fashion show – oh, wait! CBS didn’t refuse to air the ad, for many other drugs.

I do not understand what is wrong with the commercial.  Is it offensive to think that larger women want to wear nice undergarments, lingerie?  Is it offensive to think that larger women have lunch with men?  Is it offensive to think that larger women might go to said lunch with nothing but a shirt dress on?  Is it offensive to think that larger women might go to said lunch with sexy lingerie on under a trench with stiletto heels?  NOT TO ME!!

Women of all sizes – large, medium, small – deserve to have the lives they want to lead.  Women of all sizes deserve to be happy with their body.  Women of all sizes deserve to be able to see advertisements for clothing and lingerie that fit them while watching television.

On the other hand, I would like to call your attention to a new web site I discovered today.  The mission of Operation Beautiful “is to post anonymous notes in public places for other women to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL. You are enough… just the way you are!”  Please go over and visit!


You Can Go Home

I went home this past week, just for a day.  As I walked into The Smoke Shop to say hi to my cousin, he was wondering, as is often the case, what I was doing in town.  You would think I live quite a ways away but I am less than 20 miles from where I grew up.  As I jokingly said, I only come down for two things it seems – beer with friends or a funeral.  I was in town on Thursday for the latter.

My childhood friend Nancy eulogized and buried her mother on Thursday.  Mrs. White was a force to be reckoned with as I was growing up.  While my mother nor my father did not want to be a single parent and allowed my paternal grandparents to raise my sister and I, Nancy’s mom was a single mom when that term was not really a term yet.  Single parents were not common in the small towns of the United States during the late 60′s and early 70′s as we grew up.

I met Nancy’s husband and daughter for the first time Thursday.  I saw three other friends I graduated from high school with also.  We talked and hung out for a bit after the burial.  I, though, opted to not go out to the cemetery.  I decided a quick stop in on family was more in order.  I also took that time to take some photos of parts of town.  Those photos I share with you below.

Just realize that you can go home if you want to go home.  The people there, those who saw your values as you grew up, will always welcome you with open arms.


Civic Duty

I do believe that to be an active member of our society, we need to participate.  I am not saying that every person should run for public office.  That participation is truly not for everyone.  I am about to participate in a new form of civic duty starting this morning.

I have received a Grand Jury summons.  While Grand Jury was a common part of the judicial process in earlier times, they are almost unheard of now outside of the United States.  In the US, there are grand juries at both the Federal and State level.  Since I am not going to the Federal building, I am not being summoned to a Federal Grand Jury.  New York is one of seven states where counties have grand juries.  I was summoned to Broome County grand jury.

The thought behind a grand jury is that of checks and balances.  A district attorney or assistant district attorney must show the grand jury that there is enough evidence to try a case.  While I can tell you that I have been summoned to serve on a grand jury, the proceedings of a grand jury are secret.  Even the lawyers are not there should witnesses be compelled to testify.

Now, I will not attempt to shirk my civic duty and try to get out of this duty.  I will show up.  My biggest problem is that if chosen, the summons indicates all week this week and on a call-in basis on Tuesdays and Fridays for the following three weeks.  This is not a quick and easy item.  A significant commitment must be made.

I will let you know by how much I am posting the next week whether I have been chosen or not.  Nothing else I can do about it but hope that everything works out for me.  I have canceled, just in case, all my business appointments.  I have an event I was suppose to go to this coming weekend on hold until I know as the drive will be too much if I am in a grand jury until 5 pm on Friday.  I have a race I want to run that I am truly holding off my commitment until after I know  if I am on the grand jury or not.  I am fairly certain I do not want to do a 10 mile hill race if I cannot run my hills during the week.


Boston Marathon

I have just returned from my first Boston Marathon.  I admit that “just” is a relative term.  I took so many photos I needed to crop and such that the post was started upon my return but just now getting finished.   No, I did not run it.  You have to qualify for Boston and I do not run nearly fast enough, yet, to qualify.  I went to see a dear friend run it.

First, I cannot imagine the heartache of those who trained and trained – yes, even if you qualify, you will train specifically for the conditions in Boston – and couldn’t get to the US due to air traffic issue with the volcano.  It is nothing like being stuck like my friend Michelle’s daughter is – a school trip to France that has had at least one additional week added to it – but it is still hard to take.  I spoke with a woman who had turned her bib in as she had pneumonia and couldn’t run this race.  It is tough when you set a goal and something out of your control does not allow your work to allow you to achieve the goal.

Second, I cannot wait for next year!  I do not believe my friend is going to re-qualify and run it again but there is always that possibility.  I do know that another friend will run Boston next year as he didn’t register for this year due to the arrival of his child.  I just loved being there, in the crowd, cheering on people who had their names in tape on their shirts or in body paint going down their leg, being supportive of all the runners.

Running is an odd sport.  Even though you are competing, you really are only competing against your own personal times.  Consequently, everyone cheers on everyone else.  Everyone helps everyone else out.

Third, thanks to Paula and Lindsey who know the area and helped with info on food and the T and where I might want to go.  It was a wonderful couple of days.  Without the proper pre-race fuel, I am sure that Steve’s race might have not been as successful as it was.  Lindsey’s recommendation of Cambridge 1 was perfect.

Fourth, a big thank you to the woman on the T who convinced Lynette and I to get off a stop before the hotel personnel had told us to do.  We loved, as I stated in my previous post about Boston, the walk through Beacon Hill and the Public Garden.

Now, the marathon itself.  I was amazed.  I admit I have been to a few collegiate games that were playoff or NCAA tournament games.  These were games, played in either stadiums or rinks.  There were tickets involved and costs other than travel.  The Boston Marathon is different.  It is held in several communities that the runners run through.  I am sure that each town, in other words along the entire marathon course, had people along the roads.  The crowds were five to six deep along the main streets in Boston itself – Hereford and Boylston – possibly along other also.

People in the crowd were wonderful.  Once a person’s interest – at least where we were standing at approximately mile 26 – ran by, that person would let the next person in the front.  I was way in the back but by the time my friend was close, I was right up at the barricade.  When I left the barricade, my friend Lynette moved up to look for her sister.

The volunteers were amazing.  Lynette and I would ask questions and receive pleasant answers from everyone we spoke to in Boston.  The police presence was also amazing.  They were everywhere and there did not seem to be any problems.

So, to be able to show you all kinds of photos – yes, I took photos of people I have no idea who they are – indulge me as I post one more slideshow of photos from Boston.

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Architectural Wonders

One of the reasons I loved old cities like Boston is that the architecture there is truly old world.  In the case of most East Coast cities, you get that old world charm circumvented by newer, more modern architecture.

Boston is no different than other cities.  Below is a slideshow of some of the architecture that I was blown away by while in Boston on Monday.  Please realize that I went to the Boston Marathon so did not get around to the whole city.  My visit was rather concentrated to one area.

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Public Gardens

Monday morning, my friend and I were going into the city to wait for the marathon finishers. Lynette and I walked to the T in Cambridge to go into Boston.  The ultimate goal was to see her sister Suzanne and my friend Steve as they crossed the finish line in the Boston Marathon.  We left the hotel at 9:15, giving us plenty of time to find the perfect spot to watch the race.

Special thanks go to the friendly woman on the T who was traveling with two young children.  They were heading on a trip via bus.  She took time to tell us that by getting off a stop prior to how the hotel staff had told us we could walk through Beacon Hill and see a lot more of the city.  I love Boston so am very grateful for her help in our morning of sightseeing.

Lynette and I got off the T and heading up Charles Street.  We stopped in a pastry shop and both got a muffin for breakfast.  We continued walking.

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Earth Day

I grew up in the late 60′s, having been born at the tail end of the Baby Boomer era.  I remember celebrating the first Earth Day in 1970 but not with US Senator Gaylord Nelson of Wisconsin who founded the event.  Earth Day was not just a day but was, and still is, a movement.

As I grew older, that movement that Earth Day brought about influenced me more than I probably noticed as  teen.  I wanted to go to school, college for something that would allow me to help the Earth in some way.  I do have an associate’s degree in recreational uses of forest lands.  I, unfortunately, do not use it often enough.

So today, on this fortieth anniversary of that first Earth Day, go out and do something nice for the small section of our Earth that you live on.  Think about ways you can help the Earth and, in turn, help those who live on the Earth.

I strongly suggest reading a view of Belinda Munoz’s posts on the Earth:  How to Celebrate Earth Day Everyday and Our Sick Earth.  And, even though its original publication date is 1962 by Houghton Mifflin (was by their building in Boston this past weekend), Silent Spring by Rachel Carson is as relevant now as it was in 1962.


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