Monthly Archives: January 2010

The State of New York State

The governor of New York State gave his State of the State address yesterday.  It lasted less than 30 minutes and, in my mind, was short on true details.

The address was watched via a WGRZ feed on Pressconnects.com.  At least one person had issues with the feed due to browser compatibility so this method is not for everyone.  There was an associated chat feed going at the same time.  The feed on Pressconnects.com was moderated by Jeff Platsky, the digital desk editor.

Many people were thinking the address would be bad news even before Governor Paterson made his way into the chamber.  Of those in the chat area of Pressconnects.com, taxes are the most pressing issue facing New Yorkers.

At 1:10 pm, there was an announcement for all to take their seats but the speech itself did not start until 1:28 pm.  During this time, a discussion on Pressconnects.com discussed whether Paterson would be the Democratic Party’s nominee this year.  Most didn’t think Paterson should run or, if he did, he should not be the nominee.

At 1:20 pm, emergency instructions were announced.  Then, the gavel for the proceedings was given to Lieutenant Governor Richard Ravage.   He made routine thank you announcements and then listed the Congressional delegation that was present:  Congressmen Jerry Nadler, Gregory Meets, Steve Israel, Mike Arcuri, Paul Tacout, Eric Massa, Michael McMahon and Scott Murphy.

Shortly after this, New York State Senator John Sampson introduced Governor David A Paterson.  The governor started with a blanket thank you to many people but did manage to avoid the laundry list of thanks.  He indicated that this is the “winter of our reckoning” with the dire problems facing New York.  He also said that the address would not only be a state of the state but a “state of our self-governance.”

While Paterson indicated he would discuss the state of our self-governance, there was little talk about it as the speech continued.  He went on to say that the old way of doing budgets was unsustainable.  In this, Paterson is correct.  He also mentioned this in last year’s State of the State but when budget negotiations did not go his way and gridlock began, he went to the same old method of leadership in a room and making all the decisions.

Paterson, then, indicated he would discuss reforms for New York.  He said there was no hierarchy in these reforms as all are vital.

Lieutenant Governor Ravage will take the lead on a four year plan towards fiscal recovery.  We “can no longer afford to run New York like a pay day loan operation.”  The governor, again, called for a spending cap.  While a spending cap seems like the reasonable way to approach a portion of NY’s fiscal crisis, there was no talk of mandate relief.  The state cannot continue to push its problems down to the next ladder rung.  If a spending cap is to be put in place, it MUST be accompanied by mandate relief.

Governor Paterson also put forth a plan for complete ethics reform.  The Reform Albany Act would set up an independent ethics commission that would help implement campaign finance reform and help eliminate pay to play actions.  He also, in the name of reform, called for term limits for all state elected officials.  While the idea of an independent ethics commission is good, such a commission cannot implement term limits.  Both term limits and a spending cap would have to be voted on as amendments to the state’s constitution and that will take several years.  Change is needed now.

Many of those who were chatting on Pressconnects.com wanted to know why the delay in calling for a New York State Constitutional Convention.

The final program Paterson presented he called the Excelsior Program.  This would replace the current enterprise zones that do not seem to work.  The Excelsior Program would help create new economy jobs that are sustainable in New York.  It would be open and transparent.  This program, according to Paterson, is the centerpiece of the most aggressive jobs creating in New York State history.

While job creation in NYS is important, the audience seemed less enthusiastic, to me, at this point in the speech.  The applause was less.  The rhetoric seemed to amp up in the address and specifics were less than during the piece regarding ethics reform.

Paterson closed with indicating there is “still time to rebuild New York State” but to do so, we need to “honestly accept reality as it is.”

The speech ended at 1:58, taking approximately 30 minutes including applause.


Goals and How to Reach Them

I spent a good deal of my life working in sales.  In that time, I managed to glean quite a bit of information about goal setting and goal reaching.  Below are some of the best tips I could give you about setting goals at this time of resolutions for the upcoming year.

Put your goals in writing. The same goes for resolutions.  If they are in writing, you can hold yourself accountable.  If you just think the goals or resolutions up every now and then, they will be different and you will not be able to measure your progress.

Share your goals with others. In the case of your resolutions, share them with your friends and family.  Ask them to help.  Make the resolution something that is important to many, not just yourself.

Be specific in your goals. If you are specific, you are more likely to be able to work towards the goals you set.  By making your goals specific, you are also able to measure your progress towards the goal.

Written goals should be placed where you can see them. It helps you to keep the goals in your mind by having them posted where you see them.  This will help you stay focused.

Develop an action plan for each goal. It may be to break it down into small steps for each week, each month.  It may be to figure out what cookbook has the healthy recipes to allow you to eat better.


Set deadlines to keep track of your goals. I would review my resolutions or aspirations at the beginning of each new month.  That way I had a deadline for the action steps and I was holding myself accountable.  It also gave me a chance to reassess if necessary.

Create a motivational collage. I have done this many times while in sales.  I would use whatever reward was being given for a certain sales level and collage about that.  I would then post the collage on the fridge so that I saw it all the time and was reminded of what I was working towards.

Don’t expect perfection! We all overestimate what we can do.  We all make mistakes.  We all forget our way occasionally.

Reward yourself. When you reach an action plan goal, reward yourself somehow.  If you are working towards a weight loss goal, when you reach a certain point, reward yourself with a purchase of clothing or something that will motivate you.

Keep the goal in mind but remember that there is more to a goal than just writing it down.


Twitter and Local Media

I have to admit that I quickly became a big Twitter fan once I started using it and leaving it open in my browser.  I can let friends, both distant and close, know brief synapsis of what is going on in my life or with whatever event I am attending.

Case in point, I tweeted from my mobile phone about the weather in Oneonta when taking Ben (#5) back to college.  This allowed those who were concerned to know when I arrived home safely.  Another case in point, I tweeted from Cornell University when my daughter and I went to a women’s ice hockey game in January.  The unfortunate truth was this tweet was not a good one.  I was annoyed that they had no ATM at the hockey rink and were only using a table as a way to buy tickets.  This is a Division One sports program and Cornell was, at the time, the sixth ranked team in the country.

What I have come to discover is someone needs to teach local media how to use Twitter.  There are the occasional breaking news tweets which are great.  Unfortunately, there are just as many mornings where whoever is in charge of tweeting at the local paper comes into the office and tweets a link to every headline in the paper.  It is at that time, and the time varies by day, that I want to “unfollow” pressconnects.

I follow local news as I like to be able to blog about events as they happen.  I do not want every headline that I have usually already read to be regurgitated to me via Twitter.

Do you follow your local news on Twitter?  Do you even have a Twitter account?  How would you like to receive your local news headlines?

You can follow me at http://www.twitter.com/NickiinNY


Light, Darkness, Cold, Warmth

The thought process for this entry started by reading an email this morning.  Yes, the email came from Sparkpeople.com.  They have a “Healthy Reflections” series where an inspirational email hits the subscriber’sinbox every day.  I do not always bother to read these every day but some move me, when I do read them, to keep them for “blog fodder,” as I call it.

The subject of today’s email is “Lighting fires in the cold,” a subject that was speaking to my situation this morning as my fuel tank hit empty and I didn’t realize it.  I was under the impression I was on auto-delivery and was wondering when they would deliver.  Now, I know otherwise.  Needless to say, I have fuel oil, heating oil on the way today as we are again in a cold snap.  I have also put a reminder on my calendar to check the tank in “x” number of days.

Back to the reflection.  As I read what was in my inbox, I started thinking about the Prayer of St Francis.  I have always loved the many renditions of this that we sing at church.  It is one of my favorite prayers and one I have fallen back on many times in recent days.  The reflection in my email pushes us to not be intimidated by others but to realize that relating to others is most often not easy.  We do need to reach out a hand in friendship, in camaraderie, in hope to others.

I knew I had read a couple of blog entries on the Prayer of St Francis.  I was sure one was at Lindsey’s A Design So Vast.  I found it and with it Danielle’s which I had also read.

These women and their thoughts, along with Sarah McLachlan’s rendition of the prayer in song, are traveling with me through my days.  The words are making me realize that I have so much that I can give to others.  These words are making me realize that my life is wonderful and should be shared.  These words are making me see that I can spread warmth where there is cold in the world, whether the world as a whole or my little world.


Yemen … Again

I was not a blogging person when the attack on the USS Cole took place in October 2000, killing 17 American sailors.  I remember vividly, probably due to my overwhelming political and news junkieness – yes, I am also a wordsmith, where I was when I found out about the USS Cole. I was in line at the grocery store in West Corners, waiting to check out, when the televisions over the check out counters went from The Weather Channel to CNN for breaking news.  I do not, to this day, know why I reacted as I did but I wanted to leave without my groceries and go home to my children.  At that point in time, there were six of them still living at home and, even though I knew that most were somewhere else, I wanted to be with them.

In September of 2008, as the country went to again elect a new president, my thoughts again went to Yemen.  I went back to October of 2000, just before the country elected George W Bush for the first time.  In the news was a car bombing of the US Embassy in Yemen.  Did pundits or national security advisors think the way I thought?  I doubt it.  I have always been an original thinker.  I just could not get rid of a feeling of foreboding.

Yemen is again in the news.  The Times Online is reporting that Yemeni security has been stepped up, at least in the capital area.  This is a good thing as other news outlets are reporting increased security issues, particularly for US citizens and other foreigners.  The US Embassy was closed for several days due to these threats.

Yemeni citizens make up a large part of the population of Guantanamo Bay.  These people are going to be moved to countries that will accept them, including their own, to facilitate the closing of the detention center at Guantanamo Bay.  To repatriate a person who has been held as a suspected terrorist to a country that seems to breed terrorism does not make sense.  This scares me as I would not want these people back in a country that Senator Joseph Lieberman (I-CT) said could well be the next war if things do not change.

Will Yemen ever be out of our news here in the United States?  Will Yemen, as Senator Lieberman suggests, become the next US war?


Gifts and Blessings

We all have them – gifts and blessings.  As we start on that clean canvas or slate that is a new year, we are looking for ways to improve what is our lives.  We make resolutions to do things differently, to make things better for us and for our friends and families.

I have read many different blog entries about what and how people are making resolutions.  Very few of these people discuss what they do have but almost all what they want to have.

I am going to suggest you should try to make a list of what you already have.  Tuck this list of gifts and blessings away with your resolutions.  Be sure they are written down so you can look back at the beginning of next month, next year and see if you have more gifts and blessings.

On top of the blogosphere being filled with these resolution posts, I received the following quote and reflection in my email.  Granted this came a few days ago but it is geared to all of us now.

Should you find yourself at a loss, wondering what life is all about and what your purpose is, be thankful. There are those who didn’t live long enough to get the opportunity to wonder.

- Unknown

And after that quote came this reflection.

You’ll probably spend some time this weekend thinking about the good things in your life and your loved ones. Before you do that, take a moment to just consider how lucky you are to be here in the first place. In the 21st century, we can experience more in a month than most people throughout history did in a lifetime. Instead of appreciating that fact, we usually just end up wanting to do and have more. We look at what’s wrong rather than what’s right. This is a perfect time to take a look at your life and priorities again. Can you make some extra time every day to just enjoy the moment and your loved ones? You’ve been given the gift of a lifetime of moments. Accept the gift and prove yourself worthy.

So accept the gift of a lifetime of moments to relish what you have and how good it is.  Look at the blessings in your life – your family, your friends.  Look at your gifts – a gifted writer, an artist, a communicator, a mother, a father.

Take some time to be thankful for what you already have as you attempt to improve your life.

What are you thankful for in your life?  Who are you thankful for in your life?  What are your personal gifts and blessings?


“Ecstatic Experiences”

I visit Ronna Detrick’s blog RENEGADEconversations daily.  Her entry for January 1, 2010 was short and sweet and has stuck with me for days, mulling its way around in my mind, my heart and my soul.  I truly think you should all head over to read this entry as it will not take long.

Ronna’s blog entry focuses on an Emily Dickinson quote.  Dickinson is one of my favorite American poets.  Here I will share the quote and then my thoughts.

The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience.  - Emily Dickinson
My soul has spent time not open, not ajar.  I spent many years thinking that I was open to experience but was not.  The past two to three years I have left that door ajar.  I have welcomed what has come in.  I have lived to my fullest.  I want to continue this so will be working on an art piece based around this quote.
Thank you, Ronna, for your inspiration!!

Creativity and Problem-Solving

Both the quality of creativity and that of being a problem-solver are important to bring to the table when you are searching for employment or for freelancing gigs.

A rock pile ceases being a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral.

- Unknown Author

Employers and those out there looking for freelancers are always looking for the best.  Unfortunately for those of us competing for gigs or for jobs, the best is a subjective matter.  Job seekers and freelancers need to be able to place themselves above other seekers for the same position or gig by possessing some unique quality.

In many cases, the qualities that are being sought are creativity and/or problem-solving.  In almost any position – whether a job/career or a freelance gig – both of these are needed.  In some cases, a creative problem-solving ability, or a hybrid of the two is called for to set one seeker above another.

What is your take on creativity?  Is it solely for an artist?  Do you need it in the corporate world?  In the non-profit world?  In the higher education world?  In the freelance world?  And what about problem-solving?  Is that in your bag of tricks to show a perspective employer?


The Feast of the Epiphany

Today is the Feast of the Epiphany.  It is a celebration of the presentation of the baby Jesus to the Magi.  When I was listening to Deacon George discuss the Magi, I got to thinking.  Sometimes when I think, it is dangerous.

Deacon George, to paraphrase his homily this morning, discussed where the three Magi came from and how disappointed each was for their own reasons.  One Magi came from Persia.  Persia’s religion was a worship of dark and light at that time.  He was looking for a new light for the world and did not think the baby he saw could provide it.  One Magi came from Greece and was looking for a divine, part human, part God figure.  In Greece, there were many Gods who “ruled” over many different areas.  He did not think the tiny baby could be this divine being, either.  The third Magi came from India.  India was full of poverty and suffering.  He wanted a new King who could end suffering.  He did not think the baby was that person.

As I listened my thoughts went to a blog entry from Steve on how we perceive our lives. The Magi were Interpretivists.  They each perceived the baby that they had come to worship through the lens of their own worlds and lives.

We now look back on those times and know that Jesus was just what the world needed.  He took the suffering of the world upon himself.  The Magi from India would be proud.  He was Divine, both human and God.  He would have made the Magi from Greece happy.  He was Light for the world and still is.  The Magi from Persia would be happy.

Do you celebrate the Epiphany?


Baby, It’s Cold Outside

Upstate New York is finally paying for the lovely October – okay, so there was one small snow storm, beautiful November and almost pristine December weather that was had.  It is January, a new year, a new decade and evidently a new weather trend – cold.

What is one to expect when living in Upstate New York?  I have lived here most of my entire life so should be use to the cold that comes but this was quick.  It is not welcome at all.  Yesterday morning when I crawled out of bed, the temperatures quickly started going down.  That’s right the sun was coming up but the temperatures were doing a nose dive.  By 7 am, the wind chill was below 0F and it never came back to zero, let alone to positive numbers.

I woke this morning to air temperature of a single digit.  I know nine is so close to ten but still, it was a single digit.  And the wind chill was a negative nine.  Glad I didn’t have to go across the road to get a newspaper out of the box.  If I had, it probably would have stayed there all day.

So what is one to do with this frigid clip of weather?  There are all kinds of indoor activities.  One child is heading to the movies today.  One child is heading back to college today.  This activity will end up making me cold, of that I am sure.

I tend to plunge into writing or reading when the weather dips below the zero mark.  I like to do my workouts – especially my runs – outside but not when I can’t breathe.  I will run inside which is not quite as effective but does keep me active.

I will read.  I have been through two short paperbacks since New Year’s Eve.  I am currently working on a third.  I will read as I can do that all bundled up with a mug of tea on my night stand.

I will write.  I have tons of blog entries in my head.  Out they will come!  Aren’t you readers in for a treat??

I will create.  I have some art projects in mind.  I will find the space I left covered up last year and will draw, paint and create.

What do you do when it is too cold to be outside?  What are your favorite inside activities?


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