Daily Archives: 6 June 2008

Stress

I remember reading, many times over my lifetime, all those events that cause stress in one’s life.  I am wondering where the first six months of 2008 would fall in my life.

  1. I have had some weight loss.  I started walking/running last year and have, since Labor Day Weekend of 2007, lost approximately 30 pounds.
  2. Work has been consistently more than I really want – though I don’t mind the additional money.
  3. My 17 year old started the year in PT for a knee injury.
  4. I have organized and run a regional middle school Science Olympiad event that had weather issues.
  5. My ex – the father of all six of my kids – had emergency brain surgery to drain a blood clot on his brain from a bicycle accident.
  6. I have gone to the NYS Science Olympiad competition where I was an event supervisor.
  7. My former mother-in-law was hospitalized with congestive heart failure.
  8. My 17 year old broke his ankle playing tennis.
  9. My former mother-in-law died.
  10. I am going to see my ex’s family – he is the youngest of 8 – this coming Monday at the funeral for his mother for the first times since we split in 1997.
  11. My father called earlier this week to say he was recently diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure.

I think I qualify to go back out running again!


Senior Pictures

Back when I graduated from high school in 1979, you had no choice about who was taking your senior picture for the school’s yearbook. Shortly after that, a photographer in the small upstate New York city of Norwich sued on behalf of students and their families for choice. Because of that, New York State allows a student to have senior pictures taken at any studio they would like.

Imagine my surprise when I received a phone call from a local studio on Thursday, shortly after retrieving a large envelope to my soon-to-be senior son from the mail from the same studio. I had not asked what was in the envelope, figuring it was a pitch to have pictures taken at the studio. My son glanced over the brochure but did not even read the letter. The studio was calling to say that they have a contract with the school district and that it is possible they pre-scheduled an appointment for my son during Regents examination week. Now, if my son had not recently broken his ankle and was upstairs resting, the studio had wanted to speak to him. They made an appointment, mailed information to the minor student with information about a pre-scheduled appointment and called to confirm or change said appointment with that minor student. That would be all fine and dandy if said minor could pay for his or her own pictures. At today’s rates, Mom is going to have trouble doing that.

In my mind, having all contact going through the minor student is a way to attempt to circumvent the law that was in place since the early 1980s. Since most of this year’s senior class probably think that 1980 was an ancient time – as it was, after all, at least a decade before they were born, chances are they do not know they do not have to do business with whoever the school district chooses.

A friend had called this same studio a month prior to her son receiving the packet and scheduled an appointment around his summer camp activities. Her son received the same packet of information with a pre-scheduled appointment that was not the time his mother had arranged. The studio is only trying its hardest to hard sell an appointment that has not yet been made.

Nowhere in the information that was sent by the studio does it say you have a choice. The letter does imply that this is where you have to go. Nowhere does the school offer any information to students or parents regarding choice. Why is It that a studio can not tell the whole truth but be a respectable business?


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