Monthly Archives: August 2007

Favorite Season of the Year

Not my most favorite but one of my favorite seasons of the year is about to start in less than 36 hours. I am not talking summer, spring, winter or fall – I have a favorite there, too. I am talking college football!

I, ever since attending West Virginia University in the early 80′s, have a been a college football fanatic! I love it! I would rather watch college football than high school football – though, as a good mother, I did attend every game my son played in at the varsity level. I would rather watch college football than professional football. I really think there is something wrong with the helmets professional football players wear – something happens to their reasoning abilities when they get to that level.

Anyway, in less than 36 hours, Syracuse will open the local college season with a home game against Washington. SU should lose but who knows for sure. WVU will play at SU, which is less than an hour away. I may get up there for that game. I may get to a University at Buffalo game this year too. Not sure of that. All I am positive of is that when the weather turns crappy – as it so often does in Binghamton, NY – I will have college football to watch on Saturday afternoons through November!


So what do all those things mean?

Okay, so you all may not be able to relate to this entry. If you have ever signed up for an account at an online dating/personals site, you will understand.

Remember back to when you first signed onto cupid.com? You wrote the profile and then clicked on all those little “traits” – height, build, eye color, college, work, etc – about yourself and about the one you are looking for. You also got to choose how important each trait is.

How many of you think you need meet every trait a person puts up there to send them an eye contact or a message?

These traits – and I only have one that is a deal breaker – are just guidelines. We all want that – or we think we may want – model perfect man or woman but we are also all intelligent enough to think that we aren’t going to find the “perfect” woman or man here.

I suppose you are wondering what is getting me going today. A day or two ago – maybe it was over the weekend, I got a message from a new guy. Wasn’t a screenname I had seen around so I did check out his profile before I read the message.

I finally open and read the message and it is a rant. I have never talked to this guy before, have no idea who he is. He is ranting and raving over the fact that I put down I am looking for a guy 5’10″ (which in my mind is not all that tall) to 6’5″. This does not mean I am not going to talk with someone shorter or someone taller.

So for those of you out there, do you just not answer these particular questions in a profile? Do you assume people will realize you are not totally shallow? Or do you go off the deep end when you see a profile of someone and you don’t fit that person’s criteria?


Lunar Eclipse

I have said it before, I am a science geek. My kids even call me a geek. They don’t seem to mind when I can help with homework, though.

I got up at 4:40 am today to have time to make coffee before the start of the lunar eclipse. Before starting the coffee, always the pragmatist, I went out to be sure I could see the moon. It was beautiful but quite close to a cloud. Not thinking that it is moon-setting time, I came in and made the coffee. Went back out at 5 am to see the start – as here on the east coast, totality is not until just before 6 am – and the moon was totally cloud covered.

I am checking every ten minutes or so to see if it has reappeared from under the clouds or if the trees are now, due to setting, going to block my view.


A Most Interesting Article

While I do not find the article I just read on the magazine’s web site, I did read a recent article about political contributions. I found the article very interesting for several reasons.

The article discussed why it was still men that were the big donors, the ones getting face-to-face time with the candidates. Women just haven’t become big political donors. Some of the reasons that were mentioned were the same reasons we women use as mothers as to why we buy our kids $150 Nikes when their feet grow in two months’ time but are still wearing three year old walking shoes to exercise. Women are more likely to prioritize on the “close to them” or local issues. They pick the family over the nation.

One reason I took particular interest in this article in More magazine was that it was discussing women in politics. Unlike a lot of women my age and in my community, I have always taken an interest in politics. I am very interested in politics from school boards to town boards to state offices to federal elections. If you are not interested and a vested participant, how does democracy work for you? I remember, fondly, the stuffing of envelopes for a presidential campaign when I was 12 in 1972. I have great memories of my first, not one but three, presidential votes from 1980 to 1988.

Another reason I took interest in the article is that this is a political first for women possibly. It is quite possible – a lot of pundants think highly probable – that there will be a female nominee for the office of President of the United States. I am not saying that women should contribute to said campaign because she is female but I am saying that it should at least make more women want to be involved in the process.

Back to the article, I found it disturbing that most of the big time female political contributors that were interviewed were Republicans. I am not sure why this was but I would like to see women across the board contributing in large amounts to political campaigns that represent the issues that are important to them.

I also found it amazing that the lead statement, and an insert in the article, said that if every women who voted in the 2006 mid-term election were to contribute just $27 to any presidential nominee, it would pump 1.3 billion dollars into this campaign. Women constantly complain that politicians don’t listen. Well, unfortunately, it is money that does the talking and if we aren’t playing the game, who is going to listen?

I strongly urge any woman who can – whether you are in that group that voted in the mid-term election or not – to contribute to the presidential campaign of your choice. Encourage your friends to do the same. Make the female voice a voice to be heard!

Information from an article on campaign finance in September issue of More magazine.


Politics and Healthcare Alert

I am not a big fan of MSNBC but I was channel surfing on Friday night – what do all good mothers of teenagers do on Friday nights ? We can’t possibly go out in public as that would mean we may run into our kids and their dates. Mike someone or other from Boston was filling in for Chris Mathews on Hardball which was not why I stopped surfing but he was talking to Lance Armstrong. I was interested in what they were talking about.

Anyway, today and tomorrow on MSNBC and its online counterpart with the dot com after it, Lance Armstrong and Chris Mathews will moderate a potential presidential candidate forum on cancer.

While I am generally opposed to potential party nominees doing the dance for whatever special interest group requests it, this seems different. First, both parties are involved. Consequently, it is not labor unions only requesting the Democrats. Second, while focusing on cancer, it is an open forum for the candidates that show up to discuss one of the more important issues to everyone in the US – health care.

So, today and tomorrow at 11 am. Either turn your TV or your computer to MSNBC.


I did it!

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Who knows what I did but me? I, finally – after about eight weeks of saying I was going to, got my hair cut!

My hair has been fairly long for several years. When I would get it cut, I would basically get a trim. Who knows the thought process! Certainly, not me. Anyway, about two weeks ago, I went and got it cut. I even found someone locally who would razor cut my hair as that was what the style I picked out needed. The great news is it looks different depending on whether I dry it, don\’t dry it, straighten it (only did this once).

Now my hair is short! What happened right after I cut it? Well, we had some really, unseasonable cool weather for August. My son who always wears shorts actually put on jeans and curled up in the recliner with an afghan and a book – not normal summer activities for a 13 year old.

Oh well…too late! It is cut!!!


Lunar Eclipse Alert

I am a science freak! I love a lot to do with different branches of science but my fav is earth science – which, of course, makes some of my kids laugh.

Anyway, anything a parent or teacher can do to make science more interesting is good – the Perseid meteor showers, a once in a lifetime comet viewing or the upcoming lunar eclipse.

This Tuesday, August 28th, in the morning east coast US time, there will be a lunar eclipse. How much is viewable where I am in upstate NY will be hard to say as it starts about 5 am and goes into totality at 5:30 approximate. For those of you not sure, these are Eastern Daylight Times which I believe is -5 GMT.

In the US, the eclipse will be best seen on the west coast.


Ethical Dilemma

Well, no, I didn’t run over someone and not fess up or steal anything. This is a parental ethical dilemma.

My daughter gave me one of her brand new textbooks from her first semester at college. She has since changed majors and schools. I had originally given her the money to pay for her textbooks.

Anyway, just today someone bought her book. I won’t have the money until the end of the month as I sell textbooks at half.com but I want to keep the money – for any number of reasons. What do you think?


The Annual Perseid Meteor Showers

Nothing like three blog entries in one day to say “you should be doing something useful.”

I was toying with an impromptu visit to my sister in NJ on Sunday. Then, I started thinking. Never a good idea. First, there is the youngest who would want to go see Aunt Beth. He is doing two 60plus mile bike rides this weekend with his father. Then, there is the 16 year old. Either he and his girlfriend are breaking up or he has learned something don’t deserver to be begged for. They haven’t seen each other in a couple of weeks. To the best of my knowledge, phone calls have been at a minimum also. He has already asked if he can go mini-golfing on Sunday evening. While I didn’t ask, I presume it is with the g/f so I can’t bail on that commitment. Third, my 20 year old daughter – I specify because I also have a 20 year old son – is coming home today. This would mean 250 miles in the car today and another 250 tomorrow or so. While she says it is fine as long as I drive, I don’t think she really means it.

Then, there is the once a year reason. The Perseid meteor showers are suppose to peak tomorrow night. I love sitting out in the back yard and pointing my chair towards the sky. Lei is bringing home her chaise lounge. It will be great fun! I can’t go to Jersey and enter the “can’t see the stars” zone as it is so populated.

Guess the trip will have to wait!


Just what the h*** is college for?

I am on a roll today. Yesterday, work was really busy and left me little time to type. Due to that, I saw a lot of news/articles but do not put my opinion down to the page.

I am a huge college football fan. Many reasons for this love but suffice it to say that college football, to me, seems more pure than professional football. I also have found memories of college football when I was at WVU.

Anywho, I have always wondered, even more so after having to student-athletes go to college, just what the hell these students think college is for?

The first article that got my attention was one about how trying a season the Notre Dame Fighting Irish are going to have this upcoming season. They have a very young team. This tends to happen when your coach is only in his third season. But that is not the eye catcher. The thing that made me really hit my head in an “I coulda had a V-8″ way was that there are nine, yes nine, fifth year seniors on the team. Number one, there are only four years of eligibility regardless of how many years you have to attend to complete college. Number two, if you are a fifth year senior, you were redshirted for a year. Supposedly in the redshirted year, you could have taken a full load of classes as you don’t have to travel with the team. But anyway, this is nine fifth year seniors out of I believe 16.

The second headline – and this one really got me – was regarding Steve Spurrier and the University of South Caroline. Spurrier, in all his glorious indignation, has asked the university to change its admission policies/procedures for athletes. Evidently, Spurrier was embarrassed that two of his recruits were not admitted to the college. Is there any thought in the football coach’s mind that maybe he ought to screen his recruits a bit more?

College is for an education. Certain students cannot withstand the educational requirements at certain universities. This is why universities have entrance requirements. Why change the whole for a small subset (average football team has 50 players)? Why not get the smaller subset to fit into the requirements of the whole?


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