Monthly Archives: May 2007

The Next Jake

 

I admit that Glamour is not my magazine of choice any longer. It probably hasn’t been my magazine of choice for over 20 years, once I started having kids. Nowadays, I am likely to have it in the shopping cart for an art project for my daughter or to mail to the daughter away at college.

I do, though, listen/watch The Early Show on CBS mornings. A week or so ago, they had on three guys ranging from 24 to 35 who are vying to be the next Jake for Glamour. Jake, for those of you unfamiliar with the magazine, is a guy who dispenses advise to women about relationships and what guys think or how guys see it.

The gist of the appearance on The Early Show was to let America know they would be picking the next Jake. I watched the interviews with interest, knowing that having a 24 year old give me relationship advise is probably another reason I don’t read Glamour any longer. Today, I was looking for something on The Early Show web site. I saw the “Choose the Next Jake” button so went to the Glamour site. I read bios – very interesting cross-section of the male population; I read blogs; I read about Jake challenges. I am not very interested – not in buying Glamour, which is what I suppose this is suppose to do – but in helping pick the next Jake.

You should check out the Jakes at Glamour and see who you want to be the next Jake.


Music Boosters’ Chicken BBQ

 

I have said it before – my calendar looks rather inky. I cannot seem to find many spots where there is not something written and the events keep coming.

This weekend is one of my favorite events of the year – the annual Music Boosters’ Chicken Barbeque. We are all praying for good weather, though a local meteorologist doesn’t seem to think we have much going on our side.

This Sunday, June 3rd, will start with a small crew at a local town park. There will also be a small crew at the local high school. The crew at the park will set up tents and cover tables for a serving line. The crew at the high school will load a bus with instruments. By 11, maybe even earlier, we will all be at the park. The sound system will be set and the chicken on the fires. Noon starts sales of chicken dinners to the public and the musical performances. We will have different school music groups take the “stage” every half hour. At the same time, volunteers will man a service line that includes a half chicken, baked beans, cole slaw and roll with a drink.

Monies raised go to help support music in our schools. If you are in the Endicott/Endwell area of the Southern Tier of NY, drop in at Highland Park on Hooper between 12 and 6 on Sunday. If it rains, we will be at the high school.


Do books and movies corrupt our view of life?

 

Yes, as I have said before, I have a profile on an online dating site. I blog there as well as here but here is today’s question or thought. Do books and movies corrupt our view of life?

I have a very busy life and very busy weekend. I am actively – probably not as active as I should be but actively none the less – looking for “someone.” I have spent this weekend very busy with many different activities and they are not over yet. But this morning I had an hour or so to myself. I sat down and watched a movie – Must Love Dogs.

I picked Must Love Dogs off the on demand channel for many reasons. I love Diane Lane. Under the Tuscan Sun is a favorite of mine also. I also like movies with John Cusack in them. So this was win-win. Then, I got to thinking about it. Probably not written as a cerebral movie but I got to thinking about my profile and online dating and do all the happy endings in movies and books lead us to think that is what we must have.

Anyone out there have opinions?


On the Road …. Yet Again

 

It is beautiful outside – already 60F which is unusual for this time of year where I live. I am on my way…. to Niagara Falls. It is one of my favorite road trips and I make it about 12 times a year.

I am heading to Lewiston and Niagara Falls to pick up my daughter. Then, we will cruise down to Amherst and get her twin brother. Then, on our way home, we will pick up their older brother in Syracuse.

What a trip!!


Hooray for Memorial Day!

 

Yes, it is true! Memorial Day weekend is upon us which means so is the unofficial start to the summer season and I can’t wait.

First, this is the only weekend all summer that all of my kids will be home. My three oldest are not coming home from college this year – one is taking summer courses, one is working at her school and one graduated and has a real job.

Second, my sister, who really doesn’t live far from me – three hours away in Jersey, is coming to visit for about 24 hours. She swears this is all the time she has to spare. That may or may not be true but we seldom see each other even though she now lives on the east coast. At least when she lived on the west coast, there was an excuse.

Third, I am going to a big bash at the Canasawacta Country Club. Sounds fancy and probably is sort of but not really. My father and a close friend are retiring from volunteer fire service and there is a big party to go with it. This will be great fun!

Fourth, my girlfriend always throws a huge picnic on Memorial Day – along with July 4th and Labor Day. She is out of town this weekend but her dear hubby is throwing the party anyway and we are all invited. What great fun!

What are your plans for the weekend?


On the Road Again

 

My spring road trips have been few and far between for me. Normally, spring consists of trips every weekend. This year, there have been three so far. There was the March trip to Niagara Falls for my daughter’s first honor society induction. This was a quick day trip. There was the weekend trip to New Paltz in April. Then, there was a recent overnight trip back to Niagara Falls for another honor society induction.

This weekend’s road trip is a quick run up Interstate 81 to Syracuse. My oldest is graduating from college this weekend. I am heading out sometime after noon today for today’s portion. I tend to make many trips because I just can’t see staying in Syracuse in a hotel. I will go back and forth. He is not coming home as he has a job and it is in Syracuse.

Next weekend is a Thursday trip to Buffalo and Niagara Falls for picking up college kids for the weekend and then a trip to Norwich for a retirement party for my father and a friend of his on Saturday.

Summer road trips are being planned. Stay tuned!


A Task I Dread

 

I say I dread this and, in some ways, I do but it is a necessity. I have to go shopping. I am looking for a dress to wear to a retirement party to be held at a country club. That is a bit more “dressiness” than my normal clothing is but it is okay because, while I am not a big shopper, I like the idea that I have something in mind and I have a goal to meet.

My father and a good friend of his have been active in the fire service in their community forever it seems. They have both retired – a strange term since what they had were volunteer posts but none the less. There is a big party coming!!

The retirement party is to be held Memorial Day weekend at the local country club. I have tons of dress clothing but nothing really summery and nothing that is suitable to wear to something like this so I am off to shop tonight.

I just realized this morning that there is nothing going on tonight so I can make dinner and then head to the mall and the parkway. I am looking for a nice summery dress and possibly a new pair of shoes also. Can’t wait!!!


I’m Really Not Biased

 

I know no one could ever tell but I am really not biased. Yes, I did a huge, extremely long blog entry on the first democratic debate and nothing on either of the two republican debates but I swear I can justify.

First off, I am a registered democrat. This means I will really only need to be familiar with the stance of the eventual republican nominee – for an election that is over 17 months away.

To be fair, though, I don’t think the debates have been well publicized. It was a fluke that I saw that the democratic debate was on television. I did record the first republican debate but, as with the democratic debate, all was being nicey-nicey (a true political term) and I couldn’t manage to find time to watch the two hour love fest.

I did not even know that there was a debate last night. I am an admitted news junky. I have 24 hour news channels on in the background every day as I work. I read major city papers online. If something is happening in the US or the world, I generally know about it. I had absolutely no idea that there was a debate last night. The next debates that I knew of were the first week in June.

If we have to expand the presidential election season, which it seems is a necessity, please let those of it will affect know about it.


Ice Cream Social Here I Come!

 

What use to be an annual event in June was moved to May several years ago. The reasoning – today is school budget vote day in New York State. Schools all across NY are going to the polls today in hopes the voters in each district will approve the school board’s operating budget and most likely elect school board members.

With May and June being so busy, the PTA Council in our district decided a few years ago to hold its annual Ice Cream Social on the same night as the budget vote. Great idea since people are coming out anyway! Difficult idea for previous social location as the parking lot of the school was utilized. Compromise!! The Ice Cream Social is tonight from 5 pm to 8 pm. It has moved location to the district high school as opposed to the district middle school since the middle school is a voting location.

So, tonight is full of food and ice cream, art and music. On top of dinner items and ice cream, the district’s two elementary schools and one middle school will host an art show tonight. The high school will host its own art show later. Also, our district’s music programs will showcase the various performance groups with 20 to 30 minute performances. It is a wonderful night! And, today’s/tonight’s weather is great for it!!!

So, if you live in NY, don’t forget to vote! And if you live in the Southern Tier, see you at the M-E High School for ice cream, art and music!


What is it about May and June?

 

What is it about May and June that they are so busy?

My May calendar barely has any white space on it. Thankfully, the one bare spot it had was the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend. This is normally a travel weekend for me. I have spent recent Memorial Day weekends at soccer tournaments in Baltimore, Massapequa, and who remembers where else. This year I have no soccer to go to. But I suddenly have a retirement party for my father to go to. Now, I would have probably passed out if my father told me he was actually retiring from his paid job. My younger sister and I have been trying to get him to do so for several years but he doesn’t think he can afford to. He is retiring from a volunteer position in Chenango County, NY with the fire service. He and a good friend of his are having a joint retirement party at the Canasawacta Country Club. And somehow, I am going to squeeze a little shopping for a new dress in before then.

June is not much better but there is a little space still on that calendar. I am filling it up fast, though.


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