Monthly Archives: September 2006

Gown-Town Relations

It seems like I have been a part of gown-town relations since I left for college in the late 70′s.  I think my first real taste of the conflict was during the Winter Olympics of 1980.  Towns people in the Adirondacks thought there would be many, many jobs for the locals.  They were upset when colleges in the area scheduled breaks and students were suddenly looking for work, too.  This was easily solved because there were plenty of jobs to go around between housekeeping, food service, security.

Then, there were the ongoing relations between town and gown where I live.  Binghamton is known for problems between the locals and the students in some parts of town.  The university tries to make this work.  The city council tries to make it work in their way.  Eventually, the truth has to be stated.  The city depends on the economic impact of these students so get over it.

Now comes the town and gown relations where my children are attending college.  My son lives in an apartment complex that was not at the top of residents’ lists for placement – right across from a high school.  It has meant construction for some time.  The traffic is an issue when students are trying to get to the university and teachers and students are trying to get to the high school at the same time.  Other than that, I have not heard or read of issues.

But, my daughters go to a university that is trying to make the relations between town and gown smoother.  Students, according to the neighbors, are wrecking neighborhoods by letting houses get run down, by throwing huge parties that lead to massive garbage around the neighborhood, by not having any respect for the house they live in or those around it.  These are now minor issues in my mind.

My youngest daughter travels with her division one soccer team.  The soccer game they were to play yesterday was postponed.  Overnight Sat into Sun, people on the campus of Duquesne University who were not students shot at least six students.  Three are currently still hospitalized.  This is an extreme but probably more common than we want to admit result of bad campus/town relations.  Evidently, there have been problems between the university and off campus people.  Security needs to be tightened.  The problem is that it is going to take a shooting for university officials to take care of it.


Just What is “Reality” TV?

Okay, I know you probably think I am dumb but… Just what is reality TV?  I have never watched Survivor or American Idol.  I will admit to seeing maybe three minutes of one of them as I am getting to my preferred show on those evenings but I never really watch.

 

I am, though, enamored with Bravo’s Project Runway and Top Chef.  I also admit to watching, on occasion, Blow Out and Work Out, both also on Bravo.  And now, for the second season – I just discovered this show last fall, I am looking forward to Dancing with the Stars.  I think of these as reality TV but do you?


More College Athletics Grief

Well, today the news is not out of Niagara Falls.  It is not one team beating up another team’s players.  It is in Colorado and is teammate against teammate.
 
A lot of this goes back to what we teach our children when they start playing sports.  Teenagers, those at least high school aged in most organized sports but younger in some, identify their whole being with their athleticism and their sport.  When they move to a university where the player pool is the world, they find they are no longer the star.  They are the small fish in the big pond.  Some have a sense of being that allows them to accept this.  Some do not.  Those that do not have extreme problems.
 
I think this identity problem is at the heart of wishing teammates ill, hoping they have to sit the bench so someone else can “get in the game,” and no to stabbing.  The Northern Colorado football player stabbed the starter at his position – place kicker – in the leg.  Absolutely unbelieveable.  Right out of headlines from years ago and ones I hoped to never read again.
 
On the other hand, I applaud the university for not waiting for the judicial system to run its course before taking action.  The alleged attacker is off the team and out of school.  Why is it that Niagara University cannot take action prior to the judicial system running its course?  Why must the student body wonder for a month or more if the university will take any action this time as “they haven’t in the past?”


How do you teach teens that working within the system can change things?

When did teenagers, especially those of voting age, become so cynical?  How can we, as responsible adults, teach them that working within the system can bring about change when it rarely does in their world?
 
Case in point, the Niagara University athletic department has made national, not just regional, headlines recently.  Four members of the University’s basketball team were charged with misdemeanors resulting for a pummelling of a baseball player in a bar parking lot.  Yes, the event did take place off campus.  Yes, the University athletic department “said” all the right things in the press.  Yes, everyone is waiting for the next judicial step. 

The unfortunate part is that no one on campus thinks anything different will happen.  Even students as young as first semester freshmen say the basketball players will be at their first practice.  Of course, the University says they will wait until the judicial proceedings are finished before invoking whatever their investigation leads to.  Is this too little, too late?  Why, when athletes are required to sign paperwork giving away a lot of their rights to be able to play a division 1 sport, must the University wait until the judicial steps are finished?  And if the first semester freshmen are cynical, you ought to hear what the students who have been on campus for a while are saying.  “The basketball team has done this before”, not a person but the team.  Older members of female sports teams tell the freshmen girls to steer clear of most of the guys on the basketball team. 
 
When will the system work?


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